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Dec 22, 2016 Johnny Rivera rated it it was amazing

As someone who was a victim of a narcissistic ex-wife, I highly recommend this book. It is also a fantastic guidebook for single men who want to marry someday to recognize and avoid these potentially fatal attractions. If you've never seen Fatal Attraction, do so. If you've never paid attention to the Jodi Arias murder case, research it. Narcissists are everywhere; even in church. Narcissists come in all sizes and flavors and often look for positions of trust and leadership. They can be doctors, As someone who was a victim of a narcissistic ex-wife, I highly recommend this book. It is also a fantastic guidebook for single men who want to marry someday to recognize and avoid these potentially fatal attractions. If you've never seen Fatal Attraction, do so. If you've never paid attention to the Jodi Arias murder case, research it. Narcissists are everywhere; even in church. Narcissists come in all sizes and flavors and often look for positions of trust and leadership. They can be doctors, lawyers, nurses, paramedics, police, judges, bosses and managers. They can also work as a janitor or a home health aide.

This book explains how to say goodbye to crazy.

If you suspect someone you know is in a relationship with a narcissist, this book is for you, too. You may save that person's life one day.

Yes, it's that serious. Ask anyone who was fortunate to come out of a narc relationship alive. They will agree with me; it was like they invited hell into their lives.

Buy this book. Read it. Memorize it. Embrace it. Be prepared. You won't regret it.

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This book is spot on and eye opening! I have a very close friend with an ex wife whom this book is, I'm almost positive, written about. It scares me that there is a book written about her so that means there must be more of them out there!? That is scary! I am so glad this book exists so that those who are suffering have a sort of guideline to follow in dealing with such an awful person. We bought 10 of these books so we could give them to other family members and friends. Some of who suffer at This book is spot on and eye opening! I have a very close friend with an ex wife whom this book is, I'm almost positive, written about. It scares me that there is a book written about her so that means there must be more of them out there!? That is scary! I am so glad this book exists so that those who are suffering have a sort of guideline to follow in dealing with such an awful person. We bought 10 of these books so we could give them to other family members and friends. Some of who suffer at the same hand or at least can see what my close friend is dealing with. ...more

Jan 17, 2018 Duncan Smith rated it it was amazing

I give this five stars for its practical value to those dealing with a crazy ex, and in particular for exposing the gynocentric nature of mental health professionals and mainstream views of male-female dynamics in general. I especially liked the 'Golden Uterus' description.

The only criticism I have is that some of the writing is not up to Paul Elam's usual standard. I've read some of his essays and heard his talks and he is a brilliant writer at times. This book feels a little repetitive in the way it's written and the word 'Crazy' recurs too often (yes, even though the book is about 'Crazy'). I suppose this book is mainly a practical guide, but I think Elam, with his outstanding gift for writing / speaking, could revise the book a little.

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Insightful

This book allows one to know that what one experienced in ones own relationship is not an isolated experience. It was reassuring to know one is not alone in dealing with this type of personality, and there are methods and mindsets needed to control future abusive atmospheres.

This was the backup for which I was looking !

Repetitive? Some people need repetition to get it. If you or your partner continues to put your relationship second to their ex over an extended period of time, this book may be just what you need to read.
My husband finally saw what I've been trying to tell him for 7+ years.

This was the backup for which I was looking !

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Jan 05, 2018 Lorena rated it it was amazing

Dealing with a crazy ex-wife can be earth-shattering. This book gets to the point and hits the nail on the head every time. I read it first and have been able to implement changes in our lives, now I'm convincing my partner to read it (he's the one with the high conflict ex). Dealing with a crazy ex-wife can be earth-shattering. This book gets to the point and hits the nail on the head every time. I read it first and have been able to implement changes in our lives, now I'm convincing my partner to read it (he's the one with the high conflict ex). ...more

Best advise for anyone dealing with a controlling ex!

Spot on information in this book. I wished it was around 26 years ago. My husband and I couldn't agree more with this approach!

Best advise for anyone dealing with a controlling ex!

Spot on information in this book. I wished it was around 26 years ago. My husband and I couldn't agree more with this approach!

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A necessity

This book is a necessity for step mothers dealing with high conflict baby mamas. The information in this book is valuable. It's not sugar coated, it's honest. I am going to read it again because I still have a lot to learn and put into effect.

A necessity

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On point!

This book helped me understand what my husband had and was going through. It also helped to know that it happened to other people, as well.

Feb 09, 2021 Courtney rated it it was amazing

To the point. Includes actionable steps and advice to managing boundaries with a Crazy.

I am sure this author has been sitting on my shoulder for the past 5 years! Loved this book! Thank you!

This is my go-to handbook for coping. I revisit it with every new incursion into our lives.

Unfortunately, I found this book very helpful. Recommended by a friend and I recommend it to anyone who is in a similar situation.

Practical and to the point!

I wish I had read this book a long time ago. Tons of insight and practical tips for dealing with my fiancé's crazy ex. If you are having trouble with your own Crazy you need this yesterday.

Practical and to the point!

I wish I had read this book a long time ago. Tons of insight and practical tips for dealing with my fiancé's crazy ex. If you are having trouble with your own Crazy you need this yesterday.

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Hmm. This book has a strong bias in favor of MRA-type thinking, but it still features some sound strategies for dealing with high-conflict exes.

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